Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Obsessed

Greetings! This past weekend I spent time in the New England states where the bitter cold forced me into this beach side bar. My companion and myself were simply just trying to stay warm.
It's -5 degrees F outside, it is Happy Hour ... what could go wrong?!
Across the bar I notice two guys sitting with one female. Nothing unsual about this at first.
Suddenly this other guy charges to that side of the bar, talking shit and demanding the female to leave.
Well we knew that this was going to be very interesting, to say the least!
The confronation goes on for about 5 minutes the female refused to leave and "the guy" aka the {boy friend} finally storms out ranting to his-self.

End of story right?...
People this is RabiesLove of course that is not the end.

After the rabid boyfriend leaves and this is when the RabiesLove is fully displayed.
The attractive brunette bartender, way more attractive than the "caught" girlfriend, begins to enlighten the girlfriend that the rabid boyfriend has been coming in the bar for weeks asking her out.

This girl is trying to pretend that she does not care... poor performance, the rage is written all over her face.
Even though she has just been caught cheating she was so OBESSED with fact that her now ex-boyfriend had asked the bartender out.
At this point the now jilted girlfriend is ignoreing the two guys she is with. There was only about 10 before she left. No doubt to go confront the boyfriend.

Obession is debilitating disorder. Your thought process is disrupted. No one else will understand "why" you can not talk about any other topic.

Now I will never know exactly what became of the New England couple but... its obvious that they were obessed with each other...even though they were trying to be with other people.

It's Crazy! It's Obessive! It's RabieLove!
RabiesLove is Global!

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

ADDICTED...

An addiction consumes ones thoughts and actions.
Do you know a drug addict?
Better yet did you know the addict before the addiction?

Addictions literally drain the person of their identity. The "drug of choice" is completely irrelevant. Alcohol, cocaine, heroin, pills, patches, etc. The end result is the same...addiction kills.

Toxic relationships are the same...you are addicted to the person...they become your "drug of choice".
Just like an other addiction you are chasing a feeling... for women, some of you, are chasing the illusion that you are "loved".

I say, illusion, because Love should never cause you to feel: guilt, shame, fear, loneliness, insecurity ... basically lost without the other person. Please remember that this is an illusion that will fade over time AFTER you leave the toxic relationship.

But just like the drug addict... the only person who can put you in recovery is YOU.

Its a New Year let this be the YEAR of YOU!!!
Take your life back!! Let go of the addiction. RabiesLove can go in remission.
But you have to take the first step.
*Acknowledge you have a problem
*Cut off all contact
*The first 96hrs WILL be difficult

Good Luck!

Insanity

Insanity...repeating the same action over and over again expecting a different conclusion.
That is nucleus of RabiesLove, going back to the same person time and time again, expecting things to be different. Short Story... People do not change until "they" want to, key word is "they".
Even if a person desires to change...change is difficult for any adult.
For instance why call a person repeatedly?!
If they do not answer the first time, chances are they do not want to speak with you.
Perhaps they do... few people in this era do not have caller id so they will return your call later.
RabiesLove will cause you to redial a number insanely during an arguement almost impuslively. The person IS not going to answer. What will happen is you will look like a dumbass stalker when they have 32 missed calls from you.
Infected souls STOP THE INSANITY!!! A person who is provoking this behavior in you is NOT your soul mate but rather the person who has infected you with a debilitating diease... RabiesLove

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

रबिएस्लोवे फ्री इन २०११!!

It is a new year! I love New Years!! Starting a new year is the perfect time to start, complete, or try anything! It is as if you are given your very own personal restart button! That is exciting!
2011 can be the year that you end your toxic relationship FOREVER! Go ahead hit the DELETE button on the rommance that turned your 2010 upside down!!
Easy? No. Worthwhile ABSOULTELY!
Today is the day... breathe in and make a decision on your life!
Remember YOU are CEO of YOUR WORLD! If there is anything that is in the way of you being happy hit DELETE!!