What place value do you hold in someones life? What place value do they hold in yours?
Do you know?
Do you want to know?
Let's take a little test...
If you are talking to your significant other on the phone when all of a sudden he/she comments "Hey Baby, I'll call you right back..." or the two of you are together and they leave you saying "Baby, I will be right back"
"Right Back" means.... an hour or LESS not FIVE hours and counting! Really!
How do you wait?
Do you sit by the phone and wait? Do you keep count of the minutes they are gone? Do you start other tasks but keep checking your cell impulsively to see if you missed a call?
If your answered yes... Chances are... you have RabiesLove for this person! Seek older blogs on this page to assist you on your journey of chaos.
Now if this person does calls you back within a reasonable time frame then the person is respectful of your feelings and your time so... Chances Are... your place value is high in this persons life.
On the other hand, if this happens frequently, by that I mean daily... and the person DOES NOT call you back until the end of the night and then has some lame excuse like "oh baby I have been so busy" this person DOES NOT value you or respect your time.
Generally, it has been my experience that it is men who behave this way... and the ones that do... usually are juggling more than one woman. Sorry, its sad but true.
If a person constantly keeps you waiting... WHY the hell are you WAITING??
Technology allows us to send text messages, tweets, emails, FaceBook, etc.
There is no reason to keep someone waiting, without an explanation as to why.
Would this person like if right before they were about to have an orgasm... you get up and said "oh baby I'll be right back"???
So the next time some habitually leaves you waiting...
STOP WAITING!! Do not settle for anything less than 1st place.
Partly i agree and partly don't. There are things and situations in life that waiting means success and victory. But when it comes to people who obviously waste your time, it is indeed not worth to wait and let them control over your own time and freedom.
ReplyDeleteExactly! This post is aimed towards those who are constantly allowing another to control their time... by waiting on them to call back or show up!
ReplyDeleteWe know women who literally wait for hours on their dates to just "show up" not once but repeatedly. We want these ladies and others out there to realize they deserve and should demand better for themselves.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts!