Sunshine and Rainbows

When life throws you a shitty day... instead of complaining when in fact no one really wants to hear your baggage, why not proclaim "It's just sunshine and rainbows today!"
Can you hear the sarcasm??
Another day... another story... here we go!

Attorney, C cup, 115 pounds, five foot five inches tall.
Winner?!
Ah, no.. not exactly.
Can you imagine being called a stupid bitch on a daily basis?
Can you even fathom that a beautiful busty 27 year old, who by day has a powerful position at a law firm, goes home in the evening to a psycho boyfriend who beats her with his words??

Carrie insists that Jonathan was completely different when they met three years ago.
Really?!
I somewhat disagree.
If a person becomes an addict/alcoholic or relapses while you are together then yes... he/she was indeed different before the this milestone.
If however, there is no medical disease involved then... chances are... that the person was psycho when you two started dating and YOU were too blind to see past the "representative" to the "real" person.

Ok for those of you who are unaware of the "representative" let me further recap.
Everyone who is self aware... admits that when we meet people, we are simply introduced to their "representative". A person puts on their best persona when meeting new people. Especially when dating!!
Eventually though... "the representative has left the building" and whom you are left with is the "real person".

Ok back to my friend Carrie.
Over drinks with myself and another "inner circle" friend she continues to complain about Jonathan and how his verbal attacks have left her feeling almost like a... victim.
Good friends that we are.. we instruct her to drop his ass and move on to hot doctor that appears single.
Carrie's response "I know I need to move on BUT ladies the sex is unreal! He has the most beautiful penis I have ever seen!"
We all burst out laughing and continue our bottle of CakeBread.
Carrie and Jonathan are STILL together even though we all know that she can and should do better for herself.

Moral of todays story...
Carrie is an educated and beautiful young woman but RabiesLove has prohibited her ability to see the toxic relationship for what it is......

I cannot express how important it is to remove your self from these relationships at the first signs of a "Rabid Hot Mess!"
Also acknowledge your weakness... I'll start!
I smoked today... but tomorrow is another day of Sunshine and Rainbows!