There is always hope! That's the good news. The bad news... once infected there is no cure, only remission. Like most addictions, the addict, only realizes late in the addiction process that they are addicted. Obsessive behavior such as: repeat calling, feelings of insecurity when the person is not around, having friends go with you on "drive bys" [a drive by, is simply going past the other persons home or work to verify that they are indeed at home]
People! These are NOT rational behaviors or feelings!! This is irrational and a person that is provoking these tendencies in you, this is not the person for you. I promise.
The situation will end, badly and you will be labeled such names as: stalker, crazy, psycho! Yes, the person will never forget you, but.. not in a good way!
But now thanks to this blog.. you are becoming informed. I am proud of you already.
Maybe you just know a friend that needs some "tough love" about their relationship. In this blog we are brutally honest..in the nicest possible way. :)
Example: Guy calls new girlfriend around 6:30pm she does not answer due to the fact that she has her car radio blasting her favorite new song on the way home from work.
Now the song ends she looks down at her phone and the new boyfriend has called 11 times during a 3 minute song!! Now take the test which girl are you??
Girl A) Aww... he must really be into me that is soo sweet!!
Girl B) What the hell?! This M***F*** is showing early signs that he may have rabies! I am not seeing him again!Ok. Now Girl A will immediately call back and say "Hey Baby sorry I didn't hear my phone ring" little does she know that she just got infected.
Girl B will hit "Ignore on her phone" and never speak to him again.
Smart Girl.
See its the small indicators to watch out for simple acts of "sweetness" will turn into a whole lotta crazy in a few short weeks or months.
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