Wednesday, January 12, 2011

ADDICTED...

An addiction consumes ones thoughts and actions.
Do you know a drug addict?
Better yet did you know the addict before the addiction?

Addictions literally drain the person of their identity. The "drug of choice" is completely irrelevant. Alcohol, cocaine, heroin, pills, patches, etc. The end result is the same...addiction kills.

Toxic relationships are the same...you are addicted to the person...they become your "drug of choice".
Just like an other addiction you are chasing a feeling... for women, some of you, are chasing the illusion that you are "loved".

I say, illusion, because Love should never cause you to feel: guilt, shame, fear, loneliness, insecurity ... basically lost without the other person. Please remember that this is an illusion that will fade over time AFTER you leave the toxic relationship.

But just like the drug addict... the only person who can put you in recovery is YOU.

Its a New Year let this be the YEAR of YOU!!!
Take your life back!! Let go of the addiction. RabiesLove can go in remission.
But you have to take the first step.
*Acknowledge you have a problem
*Cut off all contact
*The first 96hrs WILL be difficult

Good Luck!

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