Self Aware... we must realize that although there are NO perfect relationships but thankfully there are healthy ones!
At first I assumed that it was just Gen Xers that fell into the RabieLove trap. The majority of this generation came from broken homes and either they first hand witnessed verbal or physical abuse and countless boyfriends/girlfriends or they lived with a single mother who worked two or three jobs and could have cared less about a relationship.
But then... I look at this younger 24 and under generation and I think... No they are infected with RabiesLove by the masses!
Example: Jersey Shore on MTV I mean I could not illustrate a more perfect image of RabiesLove than castmates Sam and Ron!
Seriously, Sam and Ron NEED to be apart, period. No one on the show wants this couple to work out because they are a RABID HOT MESS together.
This example works because they are at times ok and "in love" again this is just a phase of the disease... each fight weather alcochol induced or not becomes more verbally abusive and the disease progresses with every fight.
Sam appears to have lost her sense of "self" Ron may be the nicest guy in the world and it may truly just be Sam that brings out his destructive nature in him.
The more Sam and Ron fight the higher the ratings, people take to the message boards choosing sides and casting blame. TV GOLD!
Do you think that either one Sam or Ron sit around and WANT this crazy relationship?
It is not like everyone hasn't told them that they do not need to be in a relationship..But something keeps pulling Sam and Ron back into it again and again! (Or at least that was the case last season) People its RabiesLove!
Is this their Fairytale romance? Hell No! It's RabiesLove!
This may just be limited to the American society... let me know... but our society as a whole we LOVE Rabid Hot Messes!
Charlie Sheen...the male epitome of a Rabid Hot Mess, is on every morning show and we want MORE! How much coke does he snort? How many porn stars has he slept with? Did he last a long time? How many wives has he threatened to kill? WE WANT TO KNOW!
TV RATINGS GOLD!
Brittany Spears, Anna Nicole Smith, and Lindsey Lohan put any of these women on the cover of a tabloid and $$$ is to be made!
Fame, Fortune, Social Standing will not shield you from RabiesLove! Perhaps... that is why everyone buys the magazines, tunes into the shows.... in the end we all want to know that we are not ALONE!
Maybe you do not broadcast your personal version of RabiesLove to the masses and you feel alone in your disease... YOU ARE NOT ALONE!
Highly educated, wealthy, beautiful men and women have been where you are now...you are not less of a person because you have woken up to the RABID HOT MESS you may be involved in.
You can move past this... and have a great story to tell in the future about how you survived this disease and learned from it! People that's what life is LEARNING!
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