Beware of the Psycho Stalker....

"You are my world"
"You are ALL I think about"
"NO ONE will ever Love you like I do"
"Baby, you are my everything"
"I can not think of anyone other than you"
and my personal favorite.... "You are in every fantasy I have"

Now unless you are 15, if these comments are made to you..."Ready, Set, RUN!"
Seriously.. I do not care how "sweet" you want to believe these comments are... dig deep down and realize that the person, who is proclaiming this undying affection, is also showing early symptoms potentially becoming a Psycho Stalker.....
NOT everyone will be a stalker.... but MOST have the serious potential....learn the signs.

First, lets debunk the myth, that Psycho Stalkers are unattractive... So not TRUE.
This fact alone will make it very difficult to resist the stalker initially.
You think OMG this Hot man/woman is "in Love" with me!!
No... this person is obsessed with you.... BIG Difference!

Everyone wants to be...part of someone's life. What you DO NOT want is to become someone's EVERYTHING!!
What that will translate into is.... if you miss a call, the person will become angry and suspisious.
If you go out with friends.....you will be interrogated when you return home like you are 12.
If you work for the public.... you will find that this person shows up to say "hi" 3 to 4 times a week, even though he/she is calling you at least 10 times during the work day. After all, you are EVERYTHING!

Now you two are together ALL the time... and instead of the person establishing trust the person will become more and more obsessed with "where you are" for the few hours you two are apart.
I know guys who literally have GPS on their girlfriends cars and sit at the computer and call them just to ask "Hey where are you?" to see if they are lying.
I also know girls who have bugged the guys car to hear who he talks to on the way to work.

All of this is NOT normal.... adults in healthy relationships give each other space and respect the other person's privacy and most importantly they TRUST each other.

The person who wakes up in the, Rabid Hot Mess, with the Psycho Stalker, will eventually want OUT!
This is the point where the person is in serious danger!
Remember you, are now some one's EVERYTHING!

The Psycho Stalker does NOT take breakups well.
Seriously.... you will first have to endure the crying, then the anger, then the person will try and guilt you into staying. The Psycho Stalker will first threaten to hurt themselves if you leave then YOU will be threatened!

Now, do not be embarrassed to be in this situation. It can happen to anyone.
You are going to need help!
Find loved ones to turn to or a doctor or you really may have to go to the police.

Most important!!!
Do NOT blame yourself for some one's unstable behavior! You do NOT control the actions of others.
DO NOT stay with someone simply because you are afraid of what they will do to themselves! You CANNOT take on that responsibility!

Beware of "sweet nothings" being whispered in your hear... they my be your early signs of the Psycho Stalker.